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I’m Innocent Loverboy (or “ILB” if you want to conserve precious keystrokes). I’m a cisgender, straight male blogger, currently in my 30s. I’ve always been interested in love and sex, and as some sort of excuse, have been writing a blog on the subject for more than a decade.

2021 is my fourteenth year of sex blogging. This domain is still relatively new; you probably know me from my old blog on Blogger, where you’ll find my first twelve years’ worth of content (sit back and enjoy!).

My interests include literature of all kinds, music of all kinds, video games (mostly Nintendo), musical theatre, and softcore porn. My girlfriend is the former blogger Jill Sleight; I’ve also been found at Eroticon, Erotica UK, Sexpo and erotica readings around London.

I’ve been featured in Metro, Glamour, ES Magazine, and have won a place on a list of top 100 sex blogs in 2009, 2011, 2012, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019 and 2020! You’ll also find some of my writing on and KinkCraft.

Possibly a bit of a geek. Possibly.